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How to Do Laundry

By , About.com Guide

Once you’re married or living with someone – assuming you don’t have a maid or send all your dirty clothes to the cleaners – you’ll have double the laundry. Doing loads of laundry for two can be time consuming and frustrating if the work lands on your shoulders alone.

As with all the other household chores, you and your husband or wife have to decide who will do the laundry and develop a system for getting it done that fits your needs and lifestyle. After you have determined the logistics, you can start tackling the laundry. Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to do the laundry:

Separate dirty clothes by color.

Whether you’re washing clothes by hand or in a washing machine, you should separate them into three color groups – whites, darks (think red and black, which have dyes that might run), and all other colors. You’ll want to wash whites with whites and so on. Mixing colors with whites is a common mistake that can result in white socks turning pink, for example.

Check pockets.

People tend to leave things in their pockets – from money to dirty tissues. It’s always best to remove items from pockets before doing the laundry. Coins, for instance, could damage your washing machine and paper will disintegrate and cause ugly lint to stick to your laundered stuff.

Read labels.

Anything you wash – from sheets and bath towels to shirts and pants – should have a label on it that describes what it is made of and how to clean it. Some labels say dry clean only, whereas others might say to wash the item in cold water with like colors. Take the advice of these labels to insure the safety of your things.

Treat stains.

If you have a stain on any of the items, you’ll need to treat it before washing it. A Tide stick or other stain removal product might be a good first line of attack. Oxy Clean powder also helps dingy, old clothes look new again. There are also home products that might help you – milk takes out blood stains, powder or flour help to soak up oil stains, and brown soap works on grass stains. Sometimes, however, even after treatment and several washes, a stain remains. In those cases, you simply have to either part with the item or turn it into cleaning rags.

Wash by hand.

Washing clothes by hand might seem old-fashioned but even people with access to washing machines opt to wash delicate items – from fine lingerie to a silk blouse – by hand.

To wash by hand, you just need a bucket or clean sink or bathtub filled with cold or warm water (depending on directions on the label). You should add liquid detergent while the water is running to create suds. Then, gently place the items in the soapy water. Swoosh them around to make sure they get treated with the soap and water. Don’t put too many items in the bucket or sink at the same time. Soak the clothes for a length of time that seems appropriate. A sweat-stained shirt probably needs more time than a new bathing suit that you haven’t worn yet, for instance.

Rinse and dry hand-washed clothes.

Rinse the soap off your hand-washed clothes using a faucet or a bucket of clean water. Lightly ring out the items. Too much force can cause damage to delicate items and will increase wrinkles. Hang the clothes outside or on a line in your laundry room. Be sure the clothes can drip wherever they dry because hand-washed clothes are much wetter than machine-washed ones.

Wash clothes in a washing machine.

Machines take most of the work out of the laundry process. The first step would be to read the directions on the machine available to you. Usually, you simply place a load of whites or a load of colors into the machine, add the measured amount of detergent and any extras, such as a color-catch strip for a load of colors, set the machine to the desired water temperature and time, and turn it on. Then, you wait for the machine to be done.

Dry machine-washed clothes.

You have two possibilities for drying machine-washed clothes. You can hang them as you would hand-washed items or you can put them in a drying machine. Hanging them offers the lovely fresh, clean smell of nature, but can also make clothes dirty all over again, especially if you are in a city or a setting with lots of plants. Drying machines are much faster and you don’t run the risk of dirtying clothes, but they can damage fabric after many cycles and the heat sometimes shrinks clothes. If you use a machine, you can usually simply transfer the load from the washing machine into the dryer. Then, you can set the time and go. Be sure to clean out the lint trap every time you use the machine because it can clog and cause a fire.

Iron your clothes.

Taking clothes off the line damp or removing them from the dryer just as the machine is finishing can make getting the wrinkles out with a warm iron easier. Follow the instructions on your iron for determining the correct temperature for the fabric. Some digital irons allow you to choose the fabric and they set the temperature automatically. Distilled water is better than tap for using the steam feature of your iron, which is particularly useful for stubborn wrinkles. Be careful to remove the iron from the clothes if you must step away for a few minutes and to turn off and unplug the iron when you’re not using it.

Fold your clothes.

Folding your clothes is the final step before putting them away in your closet or drawers. Everyone has different preferences on how they like to fold their clothes. Some people like their shirts folded with the arms touching and others like to fold the shirt in half first, for instance. It’s a matter of preference and it’s another detail you must discuss – and perhaps negotiate – with your husband or wife.

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