There's no question that sometimes all you have to do to pump up romance in your life is set the right mood for love. If you and your spouse eat dinner over candlelight and have a bouquet of pretty flowers on the table and wear sexy lingerie, you are more likely to feel sexy. This will not only put you in the mood for sex, but it could even enhance the experience. With Valentine's Day on the horizon, you might be wracking your brain for ways to bring back passion and offer up some romance to your spouse. Well, it doesn't have to be as complicated as you think. Soft lighting, love songs, and silky panties might be enough to make a night go from nothing special to wow.