There's no denying that we all need to vent at times. And, of course, there are things that annoy you about your husband or wife. Sometimes, you might share these gripes with your friends. They might give you advice, in fact. Even if they don't, they will definitely remember everything you say. It might even turn them off to your spouse. It could cause tension between your friends and spouse. You will eventually forgive your spouse for whatever it is that he or she has done to get on your nerves. But your friends never will forgive. That's why you should keep most of your gripes to yourself or take them directly to your spouse. After all, if you tell your spouse what's on your mind and what you're feeling, he or she might be able to work on whatever is bothering you.