I have a confession to make. Sometimes, I hate my husband. I mean I still love him, but I hate him, too. I can't help it. We get into a fight about something -- usually, it's trivial -- and then I just kind of start to loath him. I prefer not to be around him in these moments. His face annoys me. And if I am around him, sometimes these feelings make the fight continue longer than it should.
My mother tells me that this is a normal part of a healthy marriage. There are going to be times when you want to rip off your husband's head. Or can't bear his presence. Still, I can't help but feel guilty about it. I'm much happier -- and at peace with myself -- when I'm back to just loving my husband. I always get back to the love. It just takes a while sometimes. Does this happen to you too? How do you get back to the love?